{"id":9666,"date":"2025-10-24T10:14:53","date_gmt":"2025-10-24T02:14:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ylc.ppe.rhenish.org\/?p=9666"},"modified":"2025-11-13T10:20:09","modified_gmt":"2025-11-13T02:20:09","slug":"no-not-allowed-no-does-it-really-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ylc.ppe.rhenish.org\/en\/no-not-allowed-no-does-it-really-work\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;No!&#8221; &#8220;Not allowed!&#8221; &#8220;No!&#8221; Does it really work?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"9666\" class=\"elementor elementor-9666\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0a1ba60 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"0a1ba60\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1cf9416 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"1cf9416\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"580\" height=\"432\" src=\"https:\/\/ylc.ppe.rhenish.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/shutterstock_469454867.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-9659\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ylc.ppe.rhenish.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/shutterstock_469454867.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/ylc.ppe.rhenish.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/shutterstock_469454867-300x223.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ylc.ppe.rhenish.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/shutterstock_469454867-768x571.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 580px) 100vw, 580px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ef1e762 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ef1e762\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Written by : Child Behavioral Emotional Therapist<br \/>\u3000\u3000\u3000\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Ip Wai Lun<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Many times, parents get angry because their children don&#8217;t follow the rules or challenge some bottom line. For example, if a parent doesn&#8217;t want a child to touch something, the parent will just say, &#8220;Hey! Don&#8217;t touch it!&#8221; and &#8220;No!&#8221; and &#8220;Stop&#8221;, the child will hear many of these &#8220;No! and &#8220;No! In fact, this will often make children feel that they have done something wrong, which in turn will undermine their confidence and make them avoid doing things in the future.<\/p><p>As a parent, what can you do to make your child follow the rules without undermining his self-confidence? What kind of talking skills can parents use?<\/p><p>For example, if a child is angry and his face is red, we can use the following &#8220;three-step&#8221; approach.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8727a59 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8727a59\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Part I: Say How He Feels<\/strong><\/p><p>&#8220;Mommy and Daddy see how angry you are &#8230;&#8230;&#8221;<\/p><p>&#8220;Look at your red face. &#8230;&#8230;&#8221;<\/p><p>Parents can try to help their children say how they feel. This is the first and most important step.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><strong>Part 2: Setting boundaries<\/strong><\/p><p>When a child has a temper tantrum and may hit someone, parents should immediately set a line: &#8220;Okay, we can\u2019t hurt others. Help him to set a compliance line.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><strong>Part 3: Arranging a platform for diversion<\/strong><\/p><p>If the child has already hit someone, the parent should arrange a platform for the child to channel the anger.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>For example, the parent can say, &#8220;Oh! I see you are so angry that your face is red and you want to hit someone! Why don&#8217;t you show Daddy how angry you are? &#8220;Why don&#8217;t you hit this shark doll?&#8221;<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Maybe the child will say, &#8220;Yes, okay! and then hit the shark doll. 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